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Title: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on September 22, 2011, 10:52:27 PM
Care or not, reply or not, Im posting this because Im too damn quite in the real world to say anything there.
Several weeks ago my gf left, which is when my shit hit the fan. My depression was once kept in check by a combination of her, and meds, but without her, the meds may as well be sugar cubes. I find myself unable to sleep, nor able to wake up in the morning... I havnt been to school in over 2 weeks, causing me to fall behind in my classes, and already NC out of 2 classes... Which is just bringing more weight that I cannot handle. My stepparents believe Im simply slacking and skipping, and ignore the fact that I physically cannot go to school, and stay sane. As is Ive contemplated things which scare me.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Doxy on September 22, 2011, 11:18:41 PM
shit dawg

Warning issued for postwhoring - Caek
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Uubucks on September 22, 2011, 11:29:29 PM
My parents keep asking me how I'm doing in school and every time I tell them perfect and then they go on to tell me to get a job.  Oh well.

Step away from the internet and get your shit in order.  Release !!Fun!! onto your fortress in DF, and completely step away.  I had to restrict myself for a week last year and work all day for 7 days before I could get back on.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Darkshifter98 on September 23, 2011, 12:28:14 AM
Deg, although I don't know you that well. I can't stand to see a fellow gamer in pain. So, if you ever feel the need to talk about anything. You just let me know. I hope you can get this straightened out.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on September 23, 2011, 12:28:43 AM
-snip-
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on September 23, 2011, 12:53:06 AM
I feel like i have heard this before about 3 times... (*cough* Lonedestroyer *cough*). Getting over it takes a week. I don't understand why people still misunderstand. Why complain about things that will normally happen... Just don't over exaggerate things and you'll get over it... Otherwise make everything worse and stay the way you are, that's an option.

Good luck anyways.
Rory, stay the fuck clear of things that you are utterly ignorant of, particularly when you manage to be a dick about it each and every time.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: YankeeSamurai on September 23, 2011, 01:23:40 AM
Just because you're more or less anonymous on the internet doesn't make it right to act like an apathetic asshole. I'm fairly sure you wouldn't dare say half of what you say on the forums to an acquaintance in real life. If you would, it's probably a safe bet to say you don't have many friends.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Martinerrr on September 23, 2011, 01:47:55 AM
I feel like i have heard this before about 3 times... (*cough* Lonedestroyer *cough*). Getting over it takes a week. I don't understand why people still misunderstand. Why complain about things that will normally happen... Just don't over exaggerate things and you'll get over it... Otherwise make everything worse and stay the way you are, that's an option.

Good luck anyways.
Rory, stay the fuck clear of things that you are utterly ignorant of, particularly when you manage to be a dick about it each and every time.
He's not the .. kind.
But he is trying to help, if you don't see it read again, don't burn loose on him.
If you're going to do that, why make the thread?
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on September 23, 2011, 02:43:49 PM
-snip-
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: LoNeDeStRoYeR on September 23, 2011, 07:09:59 PM
First off, rory thats screwed up to be like that

Secondly, I know what your going through Deg, if there is any way I can help tell me, and I will try to the best of my ability
Even if its just being a friend to vent to, i'm here for you

Best of luck to you
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: alaskan thunderfuck on September 23, 2011, 07:16:02 PM
I feel like i have heard this before about 3 times... (*cough* Lonedestroyer *cough*). Getting over it takes a week. I don't understand why people still misunderstand. Why complain about things that will normally happen... Just don't over exaggerate things and you'll get over it... Otherwise make everything worse and stay the way you are, that's an option.

Good luck anyways.
Rory, stay the fuck clear of things that you are utterly ignorant of, particularly when you manage to be a dick about it each and every time.
Not only am i not allowed to express what i think about this, but i am not allowed to tell you what i think of what you MIGHT be doing and how to fix it.
You really aren't helping. You whine about how your life sucks all the time, and the second someone mentions a problem you tell them to suck it up. Fuck off.(excuse my rule 1 breaking there)
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Yimmy The Cat on September 23, 2011, 07:31:56 PM
I feel like i have heard this before about 3 times... (*cough* Lonedestroyer *cough*). Getting over it takes a week. I don't understand why people still misunderstand. Why complain about things that will normally happen... Just don't over exaggerate things and you'll get over it... Otherwise make everything worse and stay the way you are, that's an option.

Good luck anyways.
Rory, stay the fuck clear of things that you are utterly ignorant of, particularly when you manage to be a dick about it each and every time.
Not only am i not allowed to express what i think about this, but i am not allowed to tell you what i think of what you MIGHT be doing and how to fix it.
You really aren't helping. You whine about how your life sucks all the time, and the second someone mentions a problem you tell them to suck it up. Fuck off.(excuse my rule 1 breaking there)
Off topic: ROLF I THANK YOU

on topic: Ya, all you need to do is get somethign to take your mind off things, like a job, or a hobby.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: wag1 on September 23, 2011, 07:35:27 PM
Yo deg, everyone goes through something like this. Get your shit straight man. Even though I have no life and spend most of my time on the computer (all) I get my homework done, enjoy the small things and never forget the large ones. So my advice, step away from the PC for a day or two, finish everything you need to get done for school, then have a decent plan. I rotate, 30 mins on PC, 5 mins on homework. Never fails me.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on September 23, 2011, 07:54:09 PM
Yo deg, everyone goes through something like this. Get your shit straight man. Even though I have no life and spend most of my time on the computer (all) I get my homework done, enjoy the small things and never forget the large ones. So my advice, step away from the PC for a day or two, finish everything you need to get done for school, then have a decent plan. I rotate, 30 mins on PC, 5 mins on homework. Never fails me.
This^

Do not quote posts not adding anything useful to it. This is considered postwhoring. ~Nick
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Dordan on September 23, 2011, 08:14:18 PM
Rory if you are just going to be a dick then leave. This is not a thing that happens to everyone and I am pretty sure telling him to suck it up isn't going to fix it or make him feel better.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: wag1 on September 23, 2011, 08:26:54 PM
He's not, he is simply agreeing with me, and I wasn't telling him to suck it up either. I was telling him how to catch up. I admit, I have no life, and I really don't care. I get my homework done, I have somewhat of a social life, with other nerd friends and I get through life just FINE. I've dealt with bullshit stuff before, so I know what it's like. BUt you just gotta work through it, that's all.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on October 03, 2011, 02:42:34 PM
Finally went back to school today... Fucking miserable.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on October 04, 2011, 02:41:30 PM
Finally went back to school today... Fucking miserable.
Try to calm down. Get some rest and just try to do your work. Eat healthy foods and if you are stressed or just depressed, close your eyes, count in your head and take deep breaths.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Veran120 on October 04, 2011, 02:55:23 PM
Try to calm down. Get some rest and just try to do your work. Eat healthy foods and if you are stressed or just depressed, close your eyes, count in your head and take deep breaths.

You know, if someone has a real depression, that won't help. It's a way harder to get over, and believe me, I actually know how that works pretty good. Sure, calming down and getting rest will work, but not for long. Few hours, that's it.

The advice I can give you, is to find yourself a thing you like, and do it often. Riding a bike maybe, or going for a walk to the park. You don't even know how many people you can meet just by simple sitting on the bench in the park. And humour, that helps. Read some jokes or watch a comedy or funny images.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on October 04, 2011, 03:46:11 PM
Try to calm down. Get some rest and just try to do your work. Eat healthy foods and if you are stressed or just depressed, close your eyes, count in your head and take deep breaths.

You know, if someone has a real depression, that won't help. It's a way harder to get over, and believe me, I actually know how that works pretty good. Sure, calming down and getting rest will work, but not for long. Few hours, that's it.

The advice I can give you, is to find yourself a thing you like, and do it often. Riding a bike maybe, or going for a walk to the park. You don't even know how many people you can meet just by simple sitting on the bench in the park. And humour, that helps. Read some jokes or watch a comedy or funny images.
Maybe you can let out some humor some times, but then again it's not helping with you're body or school work. Yes, it may with you're emotions.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on October 04, 2011, 04:00:58 PM
Try to calm down. Get some rest and just try to do your work. Eat healthy foods and if you are stressed or just depressed, close your eyes, count in your head and take deep breaths.

You know, if someone has a real depression, that won't help. It's a way harder to get over, and believe me, I actually know how that works pretty good. Sure, calming down and getting rest will work, but not for long. Few hours, that's it.

The advice I can give you, is to find yourself a thing you like, and do it often. Riding a bike maybe, or going for a walk to the park. You don't even know how many people you can meet just by simple sitting on the bench in the park. And humour, that helps. Read some jokes or watch a comedy or funny images.
Maybe you can let out some humor some times, but then again it's not helping with you're body or school work. Yes, it may with you're emotions.
What part of staying out of topic youre unwantyed and annoying in, did you not get.
Stay the fuck out of my threads,you stupid ignorant child.
Plain enough for you?

@Veran
Thats sounds easier said than done. Me talking to random people is like trying to create fire with water.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on October 04, 2011, 06:07:34 PM
~ Large Warning Added. Please be respectful, and do not continue with the trolling, if people have requests for you to leave a thread, they expect you to do so. Be mature.

~ Jakalantern
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on October 04, 2011, 06:08:27 PM
Try to calm down. Get some rest and just try to do your work. Eat healthy foods and if you are stressed or just depressed, close your eyes, count in your head and take deep breaths.

You know, if someone has a real depression, that won't help. It's a way harder to get over, and believe me, I actually know how that works pretty good. Sure, calming down and getting rest will work, but not for long. Few hours, that's it.

The advice I can give you, is to find yourself a thing you like, and do it often. Riding a bike maybe, or going for a walk to the park. You don't even know how many people you can meet just by simple sitting on the bench in the park. And humour, that helps. Read some jokes or watch a comedy or funny images.
Maybe you can let out some humor some times, but then again it's not helping with you're body or school work. Yes, it may with you're emotions.
What part of staying out of topic youre unwantyed and annoying in, did you not get.
Stay the fuck out of my threads,you stupid ignorant child.
Plain enough for you?

@Veran
Thats sounds easier said than done. Me talking to random people is like trying to create fire with water.
Anyways yeah, if your school work isn't that good or if you are tired then do something about that first.
Why are you not banned from forums for trolling yet.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Rory on October 04, 2011, 06:13:49 PM
~ Large Warning Added. Please be respectful, and do not continue with the trolling, if people have requests for you to leave a thread, they expect you to do so. Be mature.

~ Jakalantern

~ bye for a week, already gave you a huge warning and told you i would forumban you for a week if you did anything similar - caek
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Ducky on October 04, 2011, 06:49:54 PM
Also, healthy foods such as foods with protein and some Vitamins (A,B, or C are good)

You're almost as bad as me. Please, just fuck off. At this point, it's just harassment. Deg has already made it clear that he doesn't want you posting in his thread, but you keep posting. You might think this kind of trolling is funny in this situation, but it isn't. He's depressed, and you're just firing off suggestions out of your oversized asshole about stuff you don't know shit about. Please, just stop.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Veran120 on October 05, 2011, 02:08:35 PM
We really should stop flaming in this thread. It's not the real purpose of it.

@Degtyarev
I know the talking with random people may be hard, but you don't have to walk to a everyone to talk. Sit on the bench, and wait when someone sits next to you. Then start talking.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Technical Abbreviations on October 12, 2011, 09:08:04 PM
We really should stop flaming in this thread. It's not the real purpose of it.

@Degtyarev
I know the talking with random people may be hard, but you don't have to walk to a everyone to talk. Sit on the bench, and wait when someone sits next to you. Then start talking.
Thanks for the suggestions but... Its just not that simple for me. I have difficulty talking to my own parents, even asking them how they are, on my old meds, and these new meds dont help for anything. Talking to people just isnt much of an option for me.
Title: Re: Well my shit hit the fan
Post by: Penguin on October 13, 2011, 04:31:17 PM
Believe in yourself. This is going to sound blunt but nobody else is it's up to you what you make of your life, nobody is going to live it for you. Get out their get your work done, do your shit and everything will fix itself. I know you can do it we all will one day so do you and fuck the world.
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