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OK so lately i have been trying to deal with an issue and i don't think i can handle it anymore i trust this community enough so i am here to seek advice from you guys. So this is the issue at hand, about 3 months ago my girlfriend dumped me because her parents where giving her a hard time about us seeing each other but today i walk into the mall and i am in the main atrium only to see her holding hands with another guy. It's at this point where my world is totally destroyed and honestly i don't know what to think anymore part of me wan'ts to yell and scream at her the other want's to just hate her till she dies. Honestly i don't know what to do at this point i am really growing desperate like this is messing me up as a person i find it's hard to eat,Sleep,Rp i dont know maybe you guy's can tell me something that i have not thought of yet.

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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #1 on: June 28, 2012, 07:38:06 PM »
Moved to the proper section.

On topic:

Honestly, if she broke up with you three months ago, and is now seeing somone else- the only thing you can really do is move on. Another option would be to disscuss your feelings with her, and go from there.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #2 on: June 28, 2012, 07:38:50 PM »
It's been three months. Get over it. I know you're young and you're quite sensitive, but the only option you have is to move on.
And she probably gave you that reason so you won't get hurt.

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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2012, 07:41:56 PM »
Simplest solution: Time.

It will take a little while, but you will get over her and all she's done (assuming you're offended at her for finding someone else). The process will be shortened quite a bit if you are able to find someone else for yourself. You will be rewarded for "putting yourself out there" by meeting and getting to know people. Hard times are not fun at all, but then again that's why they're not called "fun times". As harsh as this may sound; get over it, move on. You're still young and it's not the end of the world so don't treat it as such. 

edit: Brandon and Jonco beat me too the punch, it seems, but everything still applies.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2012, 08:33:34 PM »
I can honestly say that i was thinking in the heat of the moment and did not take these things into account thanks allot guys, I think this is just what i needed to hear.

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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #5 on: June 29, 2012, 09:25:06 PM »
The best way to get over a lost love, is a new love.
See if there are any other nice girls around that you might could work with?
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #6 on: June 30, 2012, 05:07:01 AM »
I have been dating my girlfriend (Jamison) for 5 years with some change now and I would be in really bad condition if we broke up over something silly as so would she. I know how that feels as the girl I went out with before Jamison did the same thing. Get a new girl and enjoy life.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #7 on: June 30, 2012, 07:04:01 AM »
Moved to social discussion.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #8 on: June 30, 2012, 08:41:25 AM »
Some girls arent worth it and make up lame excuses. Example, I dated this one girl awhile back who broke up after going to cadet camp for no specified reason. Being the nice guy I was like whatever K we'll just be friends. Two weeks later I see pictures on Facebook of her with this random guy which she apparently left me for.

Then she asked me out again. K fine I guess. Might as well give it another shot. After about half a year she broke up saying she was too busy with school and work. Depressed, I was still the nice guy and said Whatever. Bye. I found out about three weeks later she was looking to date this druggie she met at work. Wow ok.

Point is, girls make up lame ass excuses to ditch you. Instead of sitting around moping and being depressed, focus on finding new love as the other have stated. If this new love allows it (like my current one) you can clean off the wound by ranting to her about it.


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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #9 on: June 30, 2012, 09:57:57 AM »
Whenever I get mad at someone for whatever reason, I just fight them. Easy way to deal with your problems and then move on after that (at least for me). So I'd fight the guy she is dating now, then get over it. Just make sure he isn't stronger than you, lol.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #10 on: June 30, 2012, 10:33:27 AM »
Whenever I get mad at someone for whatever reason, I just fight them. Easy way to deal with your problems and then move on after that (at least for me). So I'd fight the guy she is dating now, then get over it. Just make sure he isn't stronger than you, lol.
Why? What has HE done to deserve that? She is the one that is the issue, not him. An age old clichè but violence is not always the answer. Either be diplomatic about the situation or just move on I say.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #11 on: June 30, 2012, 12:40:32 PM »
Whenever I get mad at someone for whatever reason, I just fight them. Easy way to deal with your problems and then move on after that (at least for me). So I'd fight the guy she is dating now, then get over it. Just make sure he isn't stronger than you, lol.
Why? What has HE done to deserve that? She is the one that is the issue, not him. An age old clichè but violence is not always the answer. Either be diplomatic about the situation or just move on I say.

IDK but fighting always seems to work good. Gets your anger out. So take your anger out on the chicks BF, and then you can move on.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #12 on: June 30, 2012, 12:43:34 PM »
Whenever I get mad at someone for whatever reason, I just fight them. Easy way to deal with your problems and then move on after that (at least for me). So I'd fight the guy she is dating now, then get over it. Just make sure he isn't stronger than you, lol.
Why? What has HE done to deserve that? She is the one that is the issue, not him. An age old clichè but violence is not always the answer. Either be diplomatic about the situation or just move on I say.

IDK but fighting always seems to work good. Gets your anger out. So take your anger out on the chicks BF, and then you can move on.

Le sigh to you cow, le sigh to you. A word of advice to the op is to never get into a fight with the girls new bf, because then she will not like you.
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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #13 on: June 30, 2012, 01:19:14 PM »
I think i'm just going to move on due to the fact that his dad is a police officer. :P

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Re: Having a bit of a crisis right now (Serious answers only)
« Reply #14 on: June 30, 2012, 01:58:38 PM »
 Look here. There are more girls out there that want to have a boyfriend and you might be one of them. If your girlfriend breaks up with you, don't just stand there. Get a new one.

 

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