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Title: So there is this girl
Post by: raiden on September 15, 2011, 04:15:37 PM
She goes to my school, catches the same bus as me, etc. She admits to me that she really likes me but the problem is is that I don't like her in that way.

I need help to figure out how i resolve this, we've been friends for a while and i dont want to lose that.

Any help is appreciated.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Martinerrr on September 15, 2011, 04:16:33 PM
Is it a no, no, or an hmmm re-consider?
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: SaoulZod on September 15, 2011, 04:56:37 PM
I agree with Martinerrr.

Nothing wrong with social interaction, but what is the level of your friendship?
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: LeoMarr on September 15, 2011, 05:00:54 PM
You could just tell her you want to wait until you have time for her, and then just never do such.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Rory on September 15, 2011, 07:09:05 PM
The thing is, you don't BLOW it off by saying you like them. Once you have a friend as a girl, you can solve your friendship in a way and come out with a relationship together. However, your "Friend" fucked it up in my opinion.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Darkshifter98 on September 15, 2011, 07:25:24 PM
Its best just to be honset, do it nicely but don't take too long.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Pirate Robot on September 15, 2011, 07:47:56 PM
You don't want to say anything, keep your :-X sealed.
Who knows you may actually like like like this girl if you get to know her better and i'm sure she'll realise that the relationship is going nowhere if you really aren't into her, act yourself and junk k bro. Just TRY not to destroy that beautiful relationship you two already have, it  :'( to see a good relationship get destroyed by a simple upset like this.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Adam S on September 15, 2011, 08:13:59 PM
Ive dated best friends before... its pretty much better than dating total strangers.  It goes good sometimes.

You should take this chance or die a lonely virgin (You know if a freak accident happened)
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: raiden on September 16, 2011, 12:18:13 AM
Thanks for all the suggestions guys, I really appreciate it.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Nicknero on September 16, 2011, 05:19:04 AM
Removed all troll posts and issued warnings to those people.
It's really hard to follow basic forums rules, is it?
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Scratchie on September 16, 2011, 05:33:14 AM
Retro, stop before your posting privileges are removed.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Cats Pajamas on September 16, 2011, 11:34:25 PM
If hot hit it and quit it.


If not tell her you want to stay friends. Simple as that.  ;D
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: kronik on September 16, 2011, 11:46:28 PM
It really is best to be honest, and since she told you she likes you, you better not wait too long. Girls tend to think every guy likes them, idk why but it just happens. Tell her you don't, but make sure you tell her you wanna stay friends.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: BltElite on September 17, 2011, 11:15:27 AM
Just say your not ready for relationships yet
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: Nicknero on September 17, 2011, 11:24:46 AM
Just think about what you really want, then be honest with her. If you want a relationship, then go for it. If not, then just tell her you don't want to go further then friendship.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: cookiesofamerica on September 17, 2011, 01:30:20 PM
Honesty helps a lot in these situations, but your friend should've wait till the right time.
Title: Re: So there is this girl
Post by: raiden on September 17, 2011, 01:49:14 PM
Thanks for the suggestions guys.

I'm going to lock this now as I don't really have this on my mind at all since my granddad's passing.

Locked.
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